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A Maryland divorce will never truly end

When couples get divorced in Maryland, they need to know that, at least when there are children who are involved, they are never totally going to move past it and be done with it. Time will go by, but the children are a link between spouses that will always exist. For this reason, it is often best to approach a divorce as something that you have to live with for the rest of your life, right from the beginning.

For example, many people feel bitter or angry during a divorce, and they can let those things drive their actions. They may make hurtful comments about the other person. However, they are always going to get some backlash from this. That person cannot and will not disappear from their life entirely, so they are not going to get in the last word and make the situation any better.

In fact, these types of comments and actions can really make it worse for all involved, including the children. Parents must understand the impact that the words they say and the things they do have on the family structure that remains.

The best tactic, in many ways, is to just move forward into a new position in a child's life. The parent has to decide that he or she is now a co-parent and must work with the ex-spouse in this relationship with their children. In this fashion, they are still a team, despite not being together as they used to be. Their overall goal has to be providing the support that their children want and need, regardless of what they want or how they feel.

Those going through a divorce should take all aspects of this new arrangement into consideration, from the legal aspects to those that are more emotional or that impact daily life.

Source: Source: Huffington Post, "Get Into Your Divorce, Because You'll Never Get Over It," John McElhenney, July 9, 2014

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